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Flyover State's avatar

Nice article. I myself, was a teenager in the 80s and was part of the "metalhead" crowd. Listened to bands like Sepultura, Slayer, and Cannibal Corpse. Today, I attend church regularly and desire to be more involved in church. In my youth and really until I was in my 40s I didn't see the point in church. I still listen to some of those bands though, but I do find bands like Skillet very good.

As for the smart phones and outside though.....that's going to take a culture change of great proportions. My wife is a Pre-K teacher and is responsible for receiving the kids out of the cars in the morning and making sure the correct child is put in the correct car in the afternoons. Too many of the kids come to school playing on a tablet or watching a movie. The parents aren't even engaging with them. Too many parents are not paying attention when they pick up their kids either as many times my wife opens the door only to see the parent on their screen and a screen waiting for the child once they sit down.

As for outside......I have come to the conclusion that, that is a dream or a fond memory. I have made it a rule that weather permitting.....and cold doesn't count.....my kids and I go outside and play everyday. We walk, ride bikes, or just kick the ball in the front yard. I have done this for approximately 20 years and I can safely say that I have seen maybe 100 times kids outside playing. Kids in my kids age group at the time.....just on my digits. If I kicked my kids out of the house to play.....they would be playing by themselves.

I've told stories of my youth like all parents do and my youngest once said......I wish I could do things like that around here with my friends. His friends unfortunately do not live near us.

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JLC27's avatar

Great piece. I especially liked “childhood’s oldest enemy..the aap”. That is 100% spot on sadly!

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