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Dr Tara Slatton's avatar

The last time I saw my NP she had me fill out a depression/anxiety scale. I don’t have depression or anxiety so when I finished I had a zero score. When she came in and saw the scale she re-asked some of the questions with clarifications, I still had a zero score. She looked at me flabbergasted and said “you’re the first person I’ve seen in weeks that doesn’t have significant depression or anxiety, the first one in months with a zero score.” What’s really sad is that even though she’s in family medicine most of her patients are children. I think it’s also telling that she didn’t ask me why I thought it was that I didn’t have either depression or anxiety.

On a similar note I recently had a baby and every two weeks someone called me to screen for post partum depression and every baby’s visit to the doctor I got screened. Understandable, PPD is terrible and wasn’t talked about for far too long, post partum psychosis can have tragic outcomes. So I understand the screening. But thank God I don’t have PPD. It has been quite difficult to convince nurses and doctors that I’m not lying, I’m simply not depressed.

I can’t help but wonder how many people with very low levels of depression have been talked into thinking their problem is worse than it is by doctors and nurses (who I think do have the best of intentions) and that it must be medicated. Maybe worse I wonder how many people whose depression or anxiety is normal and even healthy have been zombified through medication.

When one of the nurses was asking me further questions about PPD she asked if I had any anxiety at all? I said yeah when the doctor called me and said my baby had a hole in her heart and she didn’t know how bad it was or not so we needed to see a pediatric cardiologist I had some anxiety and distress. But I know that such things are common and generally not a big deal so while I read up on her condition so I would be prepared we also gave it to God and have an army of people praying for her so we will just wait and hope it’s no big deal. (It’s likely not, PFO and VSD that seem to be resolving.) The nurse’s response was that “well if the anxiety gets out of control make sure and call us so we can get you some medicine”. I’m sorry but if the news that your baby has a whole in her heart of unknown size or location doesn’t give you at least momentary anxiety then there’s probably something wrong with you. Short lived anxiety is a completely reasonable and normal response to that news and drugging yourself numb to that cannot be beneficial. The same is true with depression. If your pet dies that is a legitimate reason to be depressed for a time or a season, mourning is a healthy coping mechanism. Drugging someone numb so they don’t experience normal and vital emotions is the opposite of “do no harm”.

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Cody Ilardo's avatar

Poking Big Pharma with the stick of Scripture, History, Augustine, Esolen, and Chesterton. It’s a good morning!

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